None of this was because I’m exceptionally stunning or unique.
My internet dating career was successful because of my profile.
This is your first impression — the cover of the book, the opening sentence, the hook.
Here are a few examples from current profiles on a popular site: Now be honest, do any of these headlines intrigue you, or make you want to know more about the person? My dating profile led with a quote instead of a position description. It has content (what the quote actually says), it has tone (beautiful, funny, sarcastic, solemn), it reveals something important about you in relation to the author (a Homer Simpson quote says something different to an Anais Nin quote), and it attracts someone who has a similar cultural or literary taste (again Homer Simpson vs Anais Nin).
What I stumbled upon accidentally, turned out to be my greatest asset.
I did one simple thing to make me stand out from the crowd.
If you think of your dating profile as a shop full of goodies then your headline and username are your shop window dressing that are used to attract people inside.
The username you choose needs to work for you not against you, so ideally it needs to be: – which one are you more likely to click on?
The second Frank sounds infinitely more interesting to me than the first one.
, you should have quite a few notes, which will provide the content for your profile. It needs to be unique, so it is obviously quite challenging to find a one that is available and works for you.
Let’s break down your profile in the following ways: to distinguish you from all the other daters on the site.