Still, unless you were actively turned OFF by his face, I’m not sure how you got this far along in your relationship. “2 months into our dating, I realized I am just not attracted to him.” So you married him after 8 months to make your family happy. My official diagnosis, Maya, is that you’re not a bad person for dating a man with whom your attraction is questionable. Some find their attraction grows when they start to love the person.Some discover that the spark isn’t enough to continue.Woman up, tell him the truth, and rip off the band aid.
She got married hoping she would learn to love him and feel passionate about him in time. The went to both individual counseling and marriage counseling for several years.
This is your fault, Maya, and only you can make it right.
It’s not my place to tell you to make things work with this nice guy who loves you. But since you asked me for advice, I’ll give it to you straight.
For simplicity’s sake, I will refer to “married couples” as anybody who is in a long term relationship.
This article comes up with reasonable “above average couple net worth” charts based on what I think, what the government thinks, what you think, and the realities of life. Everybody knows that married couples who stay together have a financial advantage over single people.