Stop claiming that you’re not courageous enough to leave him. You married a man who wants affection, you won’t give it to him, and he’s upset.That’s a convenient excuse that you’re trotting out to avoid looking bad in front of your husband and family. Staying with him is not going to make things better.Hi Evan, I am stuck in a very tricky situation, which came in my life because of my wrong choices.I married a man to whom I am not physically attracted. For me somehow, a certain type of face seems attractive and a certain type does not.
She got married hoping she would learn to love him and feel passionate about him in time. The went to both individual counseling and marriage counseling for several years. We have fights every other day over this issue and just nothing comes out of it. I am just not courageous enough to leave him and I could not say to him that I don’t love him. I’m not going to make light of the fact that you and your husband are unhappy, which is tragic.I will, however, wonder what exactly is making you tick. I’m not even sure how this is possible, but I acknowledge that sometimes one can get into a relationship where passion is lacking.Woman up, tell him the truth, and rip off the band aid.And for god sakes, Maya, don’t repeat any of these mistakes with the next guy, okay?