If I had known these things back when I was 18 or 22, man, my sex life and relationship life in throughout my 20s would have been completely different. Assuming she’s attracted to you, she wants to fuck you very, very badly, even if she acts like she doesn’t want to and even if she seems to resist sex. The only reason it seems like you are the one who wants it and she does not, is because she’s been trained her entire life to resist her biological urges and to pretend like she doesn’t like sex. It means you stop assuming that you are the one who wants sex more. Women are not going to get mad at you when you open them.
Most of you already know I got divorced 9 years later, and I could have avoided a mountain of headaches. Damn, during high school there were swarms of hot girls all over the place, and as a young dumb teenager I just became used to it. Holy crap, was I in for a shock when I left high school and went right into the full-time corporate world!Your guy buddies might give you some shit about it, fine, but women really don’t mind.Worse, it may actually turn them off if you tell them otherwise. For every woman who doesn’t like you, there’s another right around the corner who will. A super hot girl will reject you in a bar (or bookstore or dating site) and then 30 seconds later the next super hot girl you hit up, who is just as hot and in the exact same location as the first girl, will really like you.Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.That’s because back in the early 90s when I was in my early 20s, we didn’t have an internet, or PUA, or the manosphere, or any of that stuff.