Either he's being really forward with you or that "thinking of you" text was only sent to you because he wasn't paying attention.4. You get a text that seems like it was meant for someone else.I'll chat for hours, even on days they don't contribute." And by "contribute," she means financially.Men pay her and many other women for their time and company online. My Girl Fund is a website for men to interact with women via text and video chat.
That reader called it "taking off the mask." Here's the relevant part of his email: I've been reading through some of your posts and the Girls Chase appendices and when you talk to women you go straight to her "real" self.But if he's describing himself as an "entrepreneur" and refuses to get more detailed or refers to his job situation as "complicated" instead of being up front, that should be a red flag. Either he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to be spotted out with another woman in his hometown, he doesn't see a future with you and doesn't want you knowing where he lives just so he can keep his distance, or he's basically a hoarder and he doesn't want you to see the state his place is in.If he doesn't have a job, it's understandable that he won't want to lead with that, but if he won't even elaborate when pressed, he either (1) does something shady as hell for a living or (2) is just fine with lying a lot.14. It's one thing if he's being a gentleman and doesn't want you to make a long drive out to see him.The "real" self the girl in her that's still romantic, the girl who wants all her sexual fantasies to come true.You don't ever allow women to put on that mask around you, you make sure she can let her hair down and just be herself. How do you keep her engaged in a loud nightclub filled with distractions, or on a busy street when there's somewhere she very much has to be?