The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.
Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.
She is not his wife, she is not mother to his children, she is not his parents' daughter-in-law.
Her chance for happiness hinges on a future that is highly uncertain, to say the least.
Their life together includes friendships and a social network that is shared and comfortable for him. Whether it is because of all the legal and financial problems attached to divorce, religious beliefs or the fact that they have become comfortable with their marriage the way it is -- or even because they still have a certain affection for their wives, men rarely end up with the other woman.
Even Katharine Hepburn knew, and accepted, this fact during her long affair with Spencer Tracy.
His family will always come first, and that includes his wife. The beginning of an affair is romantic and naughty at the same time.”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).By this time, she is more than likely already aware of the fact that he is unhappy in his marriage and the more time she spends with him she makes sure to plea her case as to why he should be with her instead.Unfortunately, even if she is not ready to admit it, her subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.The worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes.