I havent confronted him about it, mainly because im waiting to see how long he keeps it up. The start of your reply describes well what I d like to do. I want to go, leave without a trace don t want explanation. Hello Gizzle, Please see my comment above about sexual addiction. Surely he will wants to bring her home and do whatever. Thank fully she found out about me and told m EVERYTHING. There is happiness out here and it sure as hell is not being with someone who is entertaining other women and lying to you. I have fohnd out that during the 2 years relationship there wasn t a period when he wasn t lying.If he is talking dirty to strangers online then he is up to something deceitful.At this point, you need to make a determination about what you are going to do about it and if this relationship can be repaired. Then when he freaks out on you tell him thats how you felt and you wanted him to understand the anger and hurt you felt. I say you can forgive someone but never forget what they do to your heart My boyfriend done exactly the same about a week ago, I found him on a dating site so I made an account myself as someone else and messaged him, he even sent me his number, I'm still with him now I don't even no what to do You made an account knowing that your boyfriend didn't know it was you ok And he gave you his number ( hello) he gave you his number to a random girl who wasn't his girlfriend. However, he was exchanging phone numbers with these women.
But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. I felt I'm not lovable and well ..hated myself for it.
It moved quickly, we were both fresh out of long term relationships.
Things can get so horrible if he is a SA and you stay with him without him being in treatment. Mary I've been with my bf for almost 3 years.met on POF.came to find out we had mutual friends.
Hi Norma2, welcome to the forum, watch the dates...years ago was the posting date of this forum. If you are telling anyone it is normal to have a cyber anything, I think you need to PM me to cleanse your own relationship and tell me what you are on this site for and why you are okay'ing a man cheating. I think the guy is a real **** for posting on POF and trolling for - whatever while he is involved in a relationship with you. But I would definitely use this as a jumping off point for discussion with your boyfriend. But I would definitely give him a taste of his own medicine and do not be afraid. If not, dump him if he shows you that he really does not appreciate you. I seriously think this is an addiction and some type of emotional issue. At this point I've truly had enough and am ready to move on.
Do you live with this or stop it all and find another who may do the same thing.... The fight...one you think started it all...let that happen and then used it as the excuse to indulge. Shut up and live with it or pack up and move on girlfriend. You need to be able to watch his reaction and see the whole story. Maybe he's having cyber sex with these people--but it's up to you to draw the line with what you are okay with and not. I'm just saying that 5 years is a long time, and while you ABSOLUTELY have a right to be hurt, suspicious, and angry, hear him out. If you are just a temporary girl in his mind, you will get more hurt later down the road. I checked his call log and there were calls while I was at work and while I was sleeping to a local chat line.