Relationship therapist and sexologist Isiah Mc Kimmie says that feeling may be from a fear of intimacy. We can stay in relationships while they’re exciting and fun but reaches a certain point where it doesn’t go deeper than that,” Mc Kimmie says And symptomatically, if you fear relationships, then you will feel relieved when it’s over. For me, I was able to reach a great level of intimacy with my long-term partner.But the anxiety over losing my freedom never went away.
Related Please stop blaming your shitty marriage on your kids. She'll be constantly worried that the relationship will turn out exactly like the last one and avoid getting into anything serious to avoid the pain.A woman with a bad relationship history might never fully commit to anything in the relationship and distance herself from her partner when things threaten to become too personal and intense.If she grows up with this thought process, she might be scarred for life and never be able to commit to someone for the fear of things going bad.If either parent has abandoned her as a child and that loss and hurt has led to her developing abandonment issues in early childhood, it might translate over to her youth as well and she will be wary of single parenting.