Well, there are a few qualities and traits that can help you figure that out.[Read: 10 traits of a good boyfriend that really matter!Feel free to ask questions, but seek to understand and not help solve.One last thing to keep in mind: It’s unfortunate, but sometimes in an effort to help, women actually cause men to retreat deeper into their shell because of how they react to his withdrawn behaviors.Finally, on that same note: Don’t bring up his stresses or struggles – he’ll bring them up himself if he wants to talk about them.On that same token, if he wants to talk about his stresses or struggles, just listen.[Read: 10 qualities of a great girlfriend you need to have] Guys and girls have their own flaws.
Next, make sure that you give him space Well, remember what I was saying before about guys not wanting to appear out of control or needing of help/support?
And even if you do find him, almost always, he’s already in someone else’s arms.
But have you ever wondered what really separates an average boyfriend from a great one?
Should I stop texting him all together, or will that be showing that I don’t care and that I’m not supportive?
I want him to know I’m here for him and that I’m not going anywhere, even though it’s tough. Here are a few things to consider: First, remember that his situation is tough for him (independent of whether or not he’s in a relationship).