Stephen and Ayesha Curry met when they were teenagers at their church youth group in Charlotte, N.C., but it wasn’t love at first sight for the basketball star and the budding culinary guru.An intense physical affair might just be something she needs to enjoy your life and to be distracted from her previous break-up or disappointments in men.Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it.That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.

This is in large because it is simply impossible for a man and a woman to have a great time with each other, enjoy a special sexual connection over a long period of time and not develop feelings for each other.

Being around a younger guy makes a woman feel younger as well.

No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.

“We were just kids,” Ayesha tells PEOPLE exclusively in this week’s issue, on newsstands Friday.

“He was the cute boy at church that all of the girls were obsessed with, so I made a generalization that maybe he wasn’t for me.” “I don’t remember the exact first day I saw her,” Steph adds, joking, “There was no wind blowing in her face with a backlight.” Years later, when she was acting and modeling in Los Angeles and he was playing college basketball for Davidson, the pair reconnected when he was in town for the ESPYs.